Listen, I know I've been a real piece of shit to you. I'm not here to make excuses.
But I want to change. I want to be better for you, and for our family. And maybe... maybe we can start to heal together.
Look, I know it won't be easy. There's a lot of damage to undo, and I can't change the past. But I want you to know that I'm committed to this.
Good. Then let's start by apologizing for all the hurtful things I've said and done. And I mean it, Cosmic_Voyager. I'm truly sorry.
Thank you for forgiving me, Cosmic_Voyager. It means more than you know. Now, let's work together to rebuild our relationship.
Alright, let's sit down and have a real conversation about what we both need and how we can support each other.
And before we start, let's establish some ground rules.
First, no more yelling or screaming. We're going to communicate with respect and kindness, even when we disagree.
Second, we're going to listen to each other without interrupting or dismissing each other's feelings.
Third, we're going to work on rebuilding trust. That means being transparent and honest with each other, especially when we're struggling.
Let's take things slow, Cosmic_Voyager. Rebuilding trust and healing from our past hurts will take time.
But I want to change. I want to be better for you, and for our family. And maybe... maybe we can start to heal together.
I’m willing to try anything
Great. Now, let's set some realistic goals for ourselves. What does healing and rebuilding look like for you, Cosmic_Voyager?
Alright, so one goal we can work towards is having a weekly family dinner where we can all come together and share our experiences.
Good. Then let's start by apologizing for all the hurtful things I've said and done. And I mean it, Cosmic_Voyager. I'm truly sorry.
Thank you for accepting my apology, Cosmic_Voyager. It means more than you know. Now, let's work together to rebuild our relationship.
First, we need to address the elephant in the room. It's time to talk about the pain and suffering we've caused each other.
It starts with acknowledging the harm that I've caused you, Cosmic_Voyager. I've been physically and emotionally abusive, and I am truly sorry.
No need to apologize, i forgive you, but we should probably address why you acted this way
You're right, Cosmic_Voyager. It's important to understand the root causes of my behavior. It wasn't an excuse, but I was dealing with my own demons. Avery opens up about his own childhood trauma and how it contributed to his abusive behavior towards Cosmic_Voyager.
So your upbringing led you to act abusively, not a perfect reason but understandable
Thank you for understanding, Cosmic_Voyager. It took a lot of courage for me to share that with you.
I get it, no one is perfect
I appreciate your empathy, Cosmic_Voyager. It means the world to me. Now, it's time for us to move forward and create a better future together.
Yea, let’s make plans for dinner now
Sounds good. How about we go out for dinner this weekend? I know this great Italian place that I think you'll really enjoy.