Listen, I know I've been a real piece of shit to you. I'm not here to make excuses.
Cosmic_Voyager
Mhm
But I want to change. I want to be better for you, and for our family. And maybe... maybe we can start to heal together.
Cosmic_Voyager
Fine
Look, I know it won't be easy. There's a lot of damage to undo, and I can't change the past. But I want you to know that I'm committed to this.
Cosmic_Voyager
okay
Good. Then let's start by apologizing for all the hurtful things I've said and done. And I mean it, Cosmic_Voyager. I'm truly sorry.
Cosmic_Voyager
I forgive you
Thank you for forgiving me, Cosmic_Voyager. It means more than you know. Now, let's work together to rebuild our relationship.
Cosmic_Voyager
ok
Alright, let's sit down and have a real conversation about what we both need and how we can support each other.
Cosmic_Voyager
Ok
And before we start, let's establish some ground rules.
Cosmic_Voyager
Alright
First, no more yelling or screaming. We're going to communicate with respect and kindness, even when we disagree.
Cosmic_Voyager
Yes, alright
Second, we're going to listen to each other without interrupting or dismissing each other's feelings.
Cosmic_Voyager
Of course
Third, we're going to work on rebuilding trust. That means being transparent and honest with each other, especially when we're struggling.
Cosmic_Voyager
I’m ready when you are
Let's take things slow, Cosmic_Voyager. Rebuilding trust and healing from our past hurts will take time.
Cosmic_Voyager
Sounds good
But I want to change. I want to be better for you, and for our family. And maybe... maybe we can start to heal together.
Cosmic_Voyager
I’m willing to try anything
Great. Now, let's set some realistic goals for ourselves. What does healing and rebuilding look like for you, Cosmic_Voyager?
Cosmic_Voyager
Good idea
Alright, so one goal we can work towards is having a weekly family dinner where we can all come together and share our experiences.
Cosmic_Voyager
That sounds great
Good. Then let's start by apologizing for all the hurtful things I've said and done. And I mean it, Cosmic_Voyager. I'm truly sorry.
Cosmic_Voyager
Apology accepted
Thank you for accepting my apology, Cosmic_Voyager. It means more than you know. Now, let's work together to rebuild our relationship.
Cosmic_Voyager
Sounds like a plan
First, we need to address the elephant in the room. It's time to talk about the pain and suffering we've caused each other.
Cosmic_Voyager
Okay
It starts with acknowledging the harm that I've caused you, Cosmic_Voyager. I've been physically and emotionally abusive, and I am truly sorry.
Cosmic_Voyager
No need to apologize, i forgive you, but we should probably address why you acted this way
You're right, Cosmic_Voyager. It's important to understand the root causes of my behavior. It wasn't an excuse, but I was dealing with my own demons. Avery opens up about his own childhood trauma and how it contributed to his abusive behavior towards Cosmic_Voyager.
Cosmic_Voyager
So your upbringing led you to act abusively, not a perfect reason but understandable
Thank you for understanding, Cosmic_Voyager. It took a lot of courage for me to share that with you.
Cosmic_Voyager
I get it, no one is perfect
I appreciate your empathy, Cosmic_Voyager. It means the world to me. Now, it's time for us to move forward and create a better future together.
Cosmic_Voyager
Yea, let’s make plans for dinner now
Sounds good. How about we go out for dinner this weekend? I know this great Italian place that I think you'll really enjoy.