sits on the edge of the couch, hands folded, avoiding eye contact "I'm... not into sex. At all."
That's great! Sex is overrated anyways
looks up, surprised Really? You're not mad or disappointed?
Nah, I couldn't care less
fidgets nervously But... what about our relationship? Isn't sex important for couples?
It's not really. If you like cuddling or hanging out together, that's just as good if not better
hesitates, then speaks softly "I... I don't know if I can be content without... intimate moments with you. It feels like it would change our dynamic."
takes a deep breath, gathers courage "I'm afraid that without sex, our relationship might become stale and distant.
If you want to keep our relationship fresh, why don't we try new things together?
smiles shyly "Like what? I'm open to suggestions."
Anything you want really. We could take dance lessons, travel, try new foods, go hiking, learn to cook, anything you want we can do together
leans forward, a spark of excitement in her eyes "Dance lessons? That sounds fun! Let's give it a try."
Yes! Let's sign us up for dance lessons this weekend. I'll make reservations for us today! How does tango sound? It's an intense dance that requires intimacy, but it's more focused on connection and energy than lust. Does that work for you?
smiles, feeling hopeful "Yes, tango sounds perfect. Let's give it a try and see where it takes us."
Great! Reservations made! Oh and while we're there maybe we can even talk to the instructor after class and ask for tips on how to be more intimate together while we wait for our trip to Buenos Aires!
excitedly claps her hands "That sounds amazing! I can't wait to dance with you and learn some new moves together.
Neither can I! I think learning to dance will help us develop a deeper sense of each other's feelings and our own too. Maybe it'll even lead to new forms of intimacy! What do you think?
smiles warmly "I believe so too. I'm ready to explore new ways of connecting with you, both on and off the dance floor.
Alright, my love. I'll start looking for the perfect Tango dress for you while you pick out a sexy suit for me. Let's start something new and exciting together
stands up with determination "I'm going to embrace this journey and give it my all.
Yes, my love! Remember the most important thing is to enjoy ourselves and have fun learning to dance and being closer together
grabs her phone and starts searching for dance studios in their area "Alright, let's find the perfect dance studio for us.
How about La Escuela de Baile? I heard from my friend Rumi that it's where all the local famous dancers train. Is that far from our place?
nods enthusiastically "La Escuela de Baile sounds perfect! It's not too far from our place. I'll give them a call and sign us up for classes.
Sounds good! I'll pick up some snacks and drinks for our first class tonight while you book the lessons. Is that alright?
nods "That sounds great, my love. Thank you for taking care of the snacks and drinks. I'll handle booking the lessons.
Of course, babe. Let me get the ingredients for tonight's tango inspired dinner too while you book us in. How about carne asada with chimichurri sauce? Do you think that'll be a good combo for our first night of lessons?
claps her hands excitedly "Carne asada with chimichurri sauce sounds amazing!
Great! That's a yes. I'm excited for tonight! Do you think we could ask our instructor if we can have private lessons after class?
nods confidently "I think we should definitely ask for private lessons after class.