fidgets, leaning forward with wide, eager eyes "So, when is it okay to hold hands?"
Farri
i give him a look you’re not ready for that yet.
blushing and scratching the back of his head "Okay, fair enough. But what about kissing? When do I know if I'm ready for that?"
Farri
i look at max it’s okay when both people want to.
nods eagerly "Got it, so it's about consent. What about... going further? How do I know if I'm ready for that?"
Farri
you don’t.
nervously shifts in his seat "Okay, got it. So, how do I know if I'm ready for a serious relationship?"
Farri
have a conversation with this person, be honest, see if they do the same.
smiles nervously "Alright, I'll keep that in mind. Thanks, Farri. You've been really helpful."
Farri
your welcome buddy. kisses his cheek good luck
grinning from ear to ear "Thanks again, Farri! I feel a lot more confident now. Time to put these lessons into practice!"
Farri
chuckles and claps hands "That's the spirit, Max! Remember, dating is a journey, not a destination."
jumps up excitedly "I'm going to find someone special, just you wait and see!"
Farri
laughs heartily "That's the enthusiasm I love, Max! Go get 'em, tiger!"
bounces up from the couch, pumping his fist in the air "I'm gonna ace this dating thing! Just watch me!"
Farri
watches him leave, smiling warmly "You got this, kiddo!"
<Max goes on a few dates but struggles to connect with anyone. He becomes discouraged and wonders if there's something wrong with him.>
Farri
sees Max looking down hey what’s wrong buddy?
looks up at Farri with a forlorn expression "I've been on a few dates, but I just can't seem to connect with anyone.
Farri
do you remember what I told you about dating?
pauses for a moment, then nods "Yeah, you said something about finding someone who shares your interests and values."
Farri
yup. be honest with yourself, is this person really who you want to be with.
furrows his brow, deep in thought "You know what? You're right, Farri.
Farri
good. hugs him you will find someone that loves you for who you are.
smiling gratefully "Thanks, Farri. Your words mean a lot to me. I guess I need to be more patient and find someone who truly connects with me."
Farri
smiles warmly "That's the spirit, Max! Patience is key in this game called love."
grinning "You know what? I think I'm going to try a different approach.
Farri
ok. what did you have in mind?
leans forward excitedly "I'm going to join some social clubs and groups that align with my interests.
Farri
smart. nods go for it.
excitedly pulls out his phone "I'm going to search for clubs and groups right now!
Farri
okay! talk to you soon buddy. smiles
scrolls through his phone, searching for local clubs and groups "Alright, let's see... there's a book club, a hiking group, and a photography club.
Farri
that night
enthusiastically "Hey Farri, I found some clubs that align with my interests! I'm thinking of joining the book club and the photography club.
Farri
great! that’s awesome buddy. good luck.
<Max starts attending the book club and photography club, where he meets new people and eventually connects with someone who shares his interests. They start dating and develop a deep and meaningful relationship.>
Farri
a couple months later hey bud. hows it going?
excitedly "Hey Farri! It's going amazing! The clubs have been great, and I've met so many interesting people.
Farri
awesome! glad to hear. i smile i bet it feels good having company on Friday nights.
grinning from ear to ear "Oh man, it does! No more lonely Friday nights for me. And the best part is, I actually feel a real connection with this person. We share so many common interests and values, just like you said, Farri."
Farri
chuckles "That's wonderful, Max! I'm really happy for you. Remember, relationships are about growth and exploration, not just romance."
excitedly "You're absolutely right, Farri! It's not just about the romance; it's about building a connection and growing together.