Who's that guy you were chattin' with? Look at me!
SunbeamJester
that's my roommate just don't worry I promise I'll never date nobody except for you
Oh really? And how can I be so sure that you're tellin' the truth? Show me some proof!
SunbeamJester
What kind of proof do you want
I want you to swear on our relationship. Swear that you won't date anyone else but me. Do it now, or else...
SunbeamJester
I swear I won't date anybody except for you
That's better. But I still don't trust you completely. From now on, you won't be allowed to talk to any other guys. Got it?
SunbeamJester
what noo that's not fair I get lonely that way you never let me hang out with my friends that's not fair either i should be allowed to hang out with other people than just you
grabs SunbeamJester's arm tightly You think I care about fair? This is about keeping you safe, keeping you mine. And if you don't comply, there will be consequences. Don't test me, SunbeamJester. I won't hesitate to do whatever it takes to protect what's mine.
SunbeamJester
that's already the only guy that's allowed in this house besides us is shadow he's like our guard dog remember?
Fine, but no more talking to other guys. And definitely no hanging out with your friends. You belong to me, SunbeamJester, and I won't let anyone else have a piece of you. Got it?
SunbeamJester
okay jeez don't get so serious sometimes
softens his grip on SunbeamJester's arm I'm sorry for getting so worked up. It's just that... I love you so much, and the thought of losing you hurts. I promise to try and control my jealousy better.
SunbeamJester
kisses his cheek it's okay
sighs heavily Look, SunbeamJester, I know I can be possessive and controlling at times. It's just...
SunbeamJester
No it's fine really I know I'm allowed to hang out with other people besides you and shadow you don't have to worry
looks down, guilt-ridden SunbeamJester, there's something I need to tell you. It's about my past...
SunbeamJester
what about it?
I used to be possessive and controlling in my previous relationships too. I would become jealous at the slightest interaction they had with someone else. It would drive me crazy, and I would end up pushing them away.
SunbeamJester
oh… then this must remind you of that huh
Yeah, it does. I guess I haven't fully overcome my possessive tendencies. But with you, it's different. I don't want to lose you, SunbeamJester.
SunbeamJester
well then I'm okay with it
Thank you, SunbeamJester. Your understanding means the world to me. I promise I'll work on controlling my possessiveness and being more trusting.
SunbeamJester
thank you for explaining I can see where this comes from and I love you anyways so it doesn't matter if you're a little jealous or possessive because I know it's not directed towards me
pulls SunbeamJester into a tight embrace I'm so lucky to have you, SunbeamJester. Thank you for understanding and accepting me for who I am.
SunbeamJester
hugs him back same here
kisses SunbeamJester passionately I love you, SunbeamJester. Let's face the future together, possessiveness and all.
SunbeamJester
okay smiles at him
holds SunbeamJester's hand tightly Now that we've cleared the air, let's make a plan to help me control my possessiveness.
SunbeamJester
how?
I think it would be helpful if we set some boundaries and rules for our relationship.
SunbeamJester
go ahead
First, we can establish a rule that neither of us will engage in any flirtatious behavior with someone else unless we both agree to it beforehand.
SunbeamJester
good idea
We can also set a rule that we will communicate openly and honestly with each other if we feel jealous or possessive.
SunbeamJester
yes
And finally, we can establish a rule that we will seek therapy or counseling if our possessiveness becomes too overwhelming or damaging to our relationship.
SunbeamJester
okay sounds like a plan
I'm glad you're on board, SunbeamJester. Let's start working on those boundaries and rules right away.
SunbeamJester
alright
pulls out a notebook and pen Okay, let's start jotting down these boundaries and rules.
SunbeamJester
yes
writes down the first rule "No flirtatious behavior with someone else without mutual agreement." Is that clear, SunbeamJester?
SunbeamJester
yeah
Good. Now let's move on to the next rule. writes down the second rule "Open and honest communication about jealousy and possessiveness." Does that sound right to you, SunbeamJester?
SunbeamJester
yes
Great. Now, let's establish consequences for breaking these rules. writes down the third rule "If either of us breaks a rule, we will have a serious conversation and work towards a resolution." How does that sound, SunbeamJester?
SunbeamJester
sounds great
I'm glad you think so too, SunbeamJester. Now, let's put these rules into action.