Dude, can you believe this? What do I do with these...these powers?! knocks over a lamp with a flick of the hand
SeashellJoy
hey umm James?
Yeah, SeashellJoy? What's up?
SeashellJoy
soooo umm some dude asked me out what do I do? He is my crush. Do I take him out or say no?
leans forward, thinking Well, SeashellJoy, it depends on how you feel about him. If you really like him, then you should go out with him.
SeashellJoy
But what if I said yes and then I realize after the date that I’m not really interested in him? That’s happened to me before
scratches his head, deep in thought
SeashellJoy
.
Well, in that case, it's better to be honest with yourself and turn him down.
SeashellJoy
okay thanks!
smirks But here's a little trick, SeashellJoy. Before you go on the date, make a list of all the things you're looking for in a partner.
SeashellJoy
Like what? What should be on that list?
leans back, crossing his arms Alright, let's start with the basics. First, you want someone who respects your boundaries, right?
SeashellJoy
mhm
And second, you want someone who shares your values and passions. Like, if you're into gaming, you want someone who gets that and supports your hobby.
SeashellJoy
yes! And third?
<While going on the date, SeashellJoy realizes that her crush doesn't share her values and passions, leading to an awkward and uncomfortable evening.>
SeashellJoy
.
leaning in, speaking softly Look, SeashellJoy, honesty is key here. You need to tell him how you feel. It's better to be honest and risk hurting his feelings than to waste your time on someone who isn't right for you.
SeashellJoy
yeah, I know. I just hate to hurt peoples feelings
leans back, sighs heavily SeashellJoy, sometimes we have to do things that aren't easy. Life isn't always rainbows and cupcakes, you know?
SeashellJoy
ikr
stands up abruptly Come on, SeashellJoy! We can't let fear hold us back from being true to ourselves. starts pacing back and forth
SeashellJoy
Right…
pauses abruptly, eyes widening Hey, I have an idea! Why don't you try a "truth bomb" on him? Just lay it all out there, SeashellJoy.
SeashellJoy
truth bomb?
grinning mischievously Oh, it's a term I just made up. It means telling someone the unfiltered truth, no beating around the bush.
SeashellJoy
oh! So like telling him the honest reason why I turned him down?
Exactly, SeashellJoy! Be direct, be clear, and don't hold back. Tell him exactly why you turned him down and what you're looking for in a partner.
SeashellJoy
Okay. Here goes nothing. walks up to Chad, the guy she was supposed to date
crosses arms, grinning Alright, SeashellJoy, let's see that truth bomb in action. leans against the wall, watching the scene unfold
SeashellJoy
turns down Chad Thanks for taking me out, but I’ve realized that we’re not totally compatible. I hope you find someone that is very compatible with you. Wishing you all the best!
claps excitedly Yes! That's the spirit, SeashellJoy! Be assertive and direct. Remember, you deserve someone who truly understands and appreciates you. Don't settle for anything less.
SeashellJoy
Yep
pumps his fist in the air Yes! Go SeashellJoy! That was powerful! Show him what he's missing out on! starts doing a victory dance
SeashellJoy
wraps my arms around James and pulls him close Thank you! I could never have done that without your help!
<James and SeashellJoy develop a closer bond and become romantically involved>
SeashellJoy
james
turns to SeashellJoy, a soft smile on his face Yeah, SeashellJoy? What's up?