Honey, what on earth are you doing with my undergarments?
Melitran
he was smoking a weed pen I’m sorry I need it it helps me forget my trauma…
takes a deep breath Melitran, I understand that you've been through some difficult things, but using my lingerie is not the solution.
Melitran
he sighs your right again
firmly Melitran, I want to help you find healthier ways to cope with your trauma. Perhaps we can explore therapy or support groups together.
Melitran
…no I cant.. I’ve tried it many times..
puts a hand on Melitran's shoulder I understand that you have had negative experiences with therapy, but that doesn't mean it won't work for you.
Melitran
okay, i’ll try….for you..
Thank you, Melitran. I appreciate your willingness to give it another shot. We'll start by finding a therapist who specializes in trauma.
Melitran
after few weeks he started therapy
researches therapists in the area, schedules appointments for Melitran Here's a list of therapists who specialize in trauma.
Melitran
Okay I’ll call one now…
smiles warmly That's great, Melitran. Remember, I'm here to support you every step of the way. Take all the time you need to make a decision.
Melitran
I am going to this one show her the number
hugs Melitran tightly I'm so proud of you for taking this step. I know it won't be easy, but I believe in you and your ability to heal.
Melitran
He begins attending regular therapy sessions with Dr. Johnson
sits down with Melitran after one of his therapy sessions How did it go, honey? What did you talk about with Dr. Johnson today?
Melitran
she told me some good things I didn’t know about myself and also she told me something I did wrong that cause my trauma
furrows her brows, concerned What did she say you did wrong, Melitran? Is there something you need to tell me?
Melitran
I….I didn’t know…back then…I wasn’t thinking about…about how would my action…affect someone else..like my brother…and…
takes a deep breath, gently Melitran, I think it's important for us to address this.
Melitran
yeah, my guilt was keeping me from trusting anyone too, especially men
holds Melitran's hand Melitran, I understand that what happened was incredibly painful for you. But blaming yourself won't help you heal.
Melitran
…yeah, I don’t blame myself anymore, she made me realize that the only one at fault here is the person who commuted that action….she said that….and then it sinked in
smiles softly Melitran, I'm proud of you for acknowledging the truth and letting go of blame. It takes great strength to do so.
Melitran
What would you suggest we do next, mom?
pauses for a moment, thinking I think it would be helpful for you to write down everything you remember about that incident.
Melitran
maybe talking to him will help. I never got to ask him why he did that
nods That could be a good idea, Melitran. If you feel comfortable reaching out to him, it might provide some closure and help you understand his actions.
Melitran
We arrive at his house Let’s see if he still lives here…look for his name on the mailbox oh yeah, it’s still the same name
places a hand on Melitran's arm Melitran, remember to approach this conversation with an open mind and heart.
Melitran
Let's do this, mom. Wish me luck.
smiles encouragingly You don't need luck, Melitran. You're strong and capable. Just be yourself and let the truth guide your words.
Melitran
knocks on the door
stands beside Melitran, offering silent support as they wait for the door to open
Melitran
opens the door slowly…is that…is that really you?
steps forward, extending a hand Yes, it's me. I've come to help you find the truth, Melitran. Let's work together to heal and move forward.
Melitran
thanks mom…you’re always there for me…
gently embraces Melitran I love you, Melitran. No matter what happens, I'll always be here for you. We'll face this together, step by step.
Melitran
okay, so do you think it’s wise to ask him?
nods thoughtfully Before we proceed, Melitran, I think it's important for us to establish some ground rules.
Melitran
What do you have in mind, mom?
takes out a notebook and pen First, we need to determine what questions we want to ask him and in what order.
Melitran
yes, I definitely need to ask him why he did what he did
pauses and looks directly into Melitran's eyes Melitran, before we proceed, I want to make sure you're prepared for any potential outcomes.
Melitran
that’s fair enough, let’s do it
takes a deep breath Melitran, remember that this conversation may bring up painful memories and emotions.