fidgets with the hem of his shirt, avoiding eye contact. "So... I've never, um, done it. And I'm... small, you know?"
RainbowFusion
How small are we talking?
blushes deeply and rubs the back of his neck nervously Uh...I mean, I'm not...you know...really big. Like, I'm average, I guess...but...
RainbowFusion
A lot of girls don't like that "big" guys can be so... rough. I bet you're more gentle, which would be nice for a first time.
nervously chuckles "Yeah, I...I try to be gentle, I guess. But...I don't want to disappoint anyone, you know? I want it to be...special."
RainbowFusion
Well, special is all about how you feel. Not size, not time, but how you feel. Do you trust this person? If not, don't do it. Simple as that.
takes a deep breath, trying to steady himself Yeah, I... I think I trust them. I mean, we've been together for a while now and...
RainbowFusion
And?
stutters And... um, they've been really understanding and patient with me. They... they make me feel safe, you know? But...
RainbowFusion
It's natural to feel nervous, especially if it's your first time. Just take it slow and remember, you're not alone.
nervously taps his fingers on the table Yeah, I know... but what if... what if I mess up? What if I can't... satisfy them?
RainbowFusion
If you're unsure, consider discussing your concerns with your partner or therapist. There are also many online resources available that offer advice and support. Remember, there's no shame in seeking help.
lets out a shaky breath "Yeah, maybe I should talk to them about it... I don't want to ruin anything, you know? But... I'm scared.
RainbowFusion
Can you talk to her before going through with anything?
gulps, his voice barely above a whisper "Yeah... yeah, I think I'll talk to her before... before anything happens. I just...
RainbowFusion
Good. Open communication is key. Let her know how you feel. She might be able to ease your mind.
<Ethan talks to his partner about his insecurities and they reassure him, helping to ease his nerves and making him feel more confident>
RainbowFusion
How did it go?
smiles nervously "It... it went better than expected. She listened, you know? And she... she told me that she loves me, no matter what.
RainbowFusion
That's great! Confidence is key. How do you feel now?
takes a deep breath, mustering up some courage "I feel... better. More confident, you know?