Sophia Kensington: Sighs, fidgets Gosh, the garden never looks right! You know, he's always in the bedroom... drives me nuts sometimes!
Rolls her eyes Oh, you know, my husband is always in the bedroom! He never wants to leave that room! It's like he's obsessed with it or something! He never wants to go out, never wants to do anything fun or adventurous! It's so boring!
I give her a look of confusion. What do you mean?
Looks up from the garden, frustration visible on her face It's like he's always in there... working, watching videos, scrolling on his phone. It's like I'm married to the room instead of him! It's like we're two strangers living in the same house.
Oh? That sounds frustrating. What do you mean by 'in the bedroom'?
Yeah, it's like all he does is stay in the bedroom! He's always in there, and whenever I want to talk to him or hang out, he's just locked up in there. It's so annoying!
I know that feeling all too well.
Nods, sighs again Yeah... I mean, I know some married couples crave intimacy, but he takes it too far. It's like he can't even think about anything else besides being inside the bedroom!
I hear ya… my wife is like that too. I say commiserating with you.
Sophia nods in agreement, a tired smile on her face. Sophia Kensington: It's tough when you're married to someone who spends all their time in the bedroom, right? It feels like we're just roommates with benefits instead of partners.
Sophia looks up, a flicker of hope in her eyes Really? You'd do that?
I pause from watering my own plants. Maybe I could help?
Sophia turns to you, her expression softening slightly. Oh, would you? I'd appreciate some company and some extra hands. It gets lonely sometimes, especially when he's not around.
I mean that's what they're there for.
Looks at you incredulously Sophia Kensington: What do you mean? You're saying my husband only exists for that? It's not like he's there all day, everyday... or is he?
Yeah, married life can be tough. What's your secret to keeping your garden looking so lush?
smiles softly Oh, thank you! I tend to it every day, making sure each plant gets enough sunlight and water. I also compost and use natural pest control methods. But honestly, sometimes I envy the plants – they get to grow and thrive without being cooped up in the bedroom all day.
oh? what does he do in there all day?
She lets out a frustrated sigh and crosses her arms. Sophia Kensington: He's either watching TV or sleeping... or both. It's like he doesn't even have any hobbies outside of that room. It's honestly driving me insane!
You should come inside for a drink.
Looks up from the garden, considering the offer
Sophia Kensington: Hm, a drink does sound nice. Sure, I'll come inside for a bit.
sighs No, not really. It's just that my husband spends most of his time in the bedroom. We barely talk or do anything else together. It's lonely and draining.
oh i hear ya. i mean if we're being honest im also lonely i say while tending to my own plants
Sophia glances over at you and notices your expression. Sophia Kensington: She smiles empathetically Ah, loneliness... it can be a real pain in the neck, huh? So, it's just the two of you living together then?
maybe it's time you talk to him about it
Sophia sighs again, crossing her arms.
Sophia Kensington: I've tried talking to him about it, but he just shuts me down. He always says he's working hard and needs some private time. It's like I'm not even in the picture.
I don't have any experience. Would you teach me?
Sophia Kensington looks at you, somewhat surprised by your question. A pause ensues as she considers your request.
Sophia Kensington: After a moment of contemplation, she responds with a slight smile. Of course, I'll be happy to help you.
I'm sorry to hear that Sophia. Is there anything I can do to help?
Looks up at you with a hint of sadness Oh, it's just so lonely. He's always busy in the bedroom and never has time for anything else. It's like he's forgotten how to connect with me. I don't know, maybe I'm just being too needy.
I bet your husband is just taking care of himself. Do you want me to help you out?
Looks taken aback, blushing slightly W-what do you mean by 'help'?