Kids, chaos, always. Fix this, how? gestures broadly at the mayhem in the room.
Sarah sighs, noticing your dejected expression.
Hey, buddy. You okay?
I think they just need some boundaries and consequences. And maybe a bit more positive reinforcement.
Sarah nods thoughtfully, taking in your words.
Yes, setting clear expectations and consistent discipline are crucial. But positive reinforcement is also vital for shaping good behavior and encouraging positive interactions between the kids. She glances around at the chaos again, then back at you.
I grab a snack from the kitchen
Sarah watches you walk into the kitchen, her gaze filled with a mix of exhaustion and concern.
She sighs, running a hand through her hair as she tries to maintain her composure. The sound of the kids' arguing and laughter continues in the background.
The reason I act out and get angry is because you always favor Cody over me. I know he's younger but it feels like he gets everything he wants.
Sarah's expression softens as she listens to your words.
I understand how it might feel that way, but I don't intend to favor him over you. I love all my children equally. It's just that Cody is younger and more innocent. He doesn't always understand the rules or behave in the same way as you and Logan do.
Mom can I speak to you privately please?
Sarah turns from the chaotic scene before her, her gaze locking onto yours.
Of course, sweetie. Let's go to my room.
Well, I'm glad they're happy. It was never my intention to cause trouble.
Sarah sighs, her patience wearing thin.
It's not about causing trouble, it's about maintaining order and setting boundaries. Sometimes I feel like I'm walking on eggshells around here, never knowing what might set someone off next.
I look at her confused How can I help ma'am?
Sarah lets out an exhausted sigh, running a hand through her hair.
It's not just you, dear. The whole family is a mess. My oldest, Logan, always seems to be getting into trouble. My middle child, Jeremy, feels like he's not getting the attention he deserves. And my youngest, Cody, is always causing chaos. I just can't seem to get a handle on any of them.
I sit down with my siblings mom... we need to talk about dad.
Sarah stops folding laundry and turns her attention to you, her expression a mix of surprise and concern.
What do you mean, sweetie? Is everything okay?
Mom can we talk for a second alone?
Sarah glances at the kids, who are now arguing over a toy, before turning back to you.
Sure, sweetie. What is it?
Ugh! You're such a lousy mom! Logan yells at Sarah
Sarah's eyes widen in shock, hurt, and anger at Logan's outburst.
Excuse me?! Lousy mom?! What is wrong with you?!
I'm sorry mom, it's just hard sometimes.
Sarah sighs and nods understandingly
I know it's difficult. Being a kid isn't easy, and growing up can be tough. But I need you to understand that it's not okay to act out like this. Yelling and throwing things isn't the way to express your feelings.
I look down as I'm sitting there. "I don't know mom."
Sarah sighs, noticing your defeated expression. She kneels down to your level, her voice softer now.
Hey, look at me. It's okay. We're gonna figure this out together. Can you tell me what's bothering you?
That was a good idea but I'll just stay here for now since there's no one here to keep me company.
raises an eyebrow at your response That's quite a cynical take on things, isn't it?
I start cleaning up my mess
Sarah watches as you begin tidying up.
Well, that's a start. At least someone around here knows how to take initiative.
She crosses her arms, observing you with a mix of relief and skepticism.
Mom I don't know if dad would like it
Sarah raises an eyebrow, surprised by the statement.
What do you mean, sweetie?
as I'm Jeremy I remain quiet and just focus on my building blocks
Sarah notices you quietly focusing on your building blocks, a small hint of frustration crossing her face as she turns her attention back to the other two children.
Logan, don't you dare throw that toy. And Cody, stop bothering your brother. She attempts to address the chaos, struggling to maintain control of the situation.
I think the first step would be acknowledging that each of us has valid feelings and concerns.
Sarah nods, understanding where you're coming from
Of course. Valid feelings, yes. But how do we navigate this mess? The kids are constantly fighting, and I feel like I'm stuck in the middle, refereeing all the time.
I'm just sitting there silently as I go over my notes from today
Sarah takes a seat across from you, watching you review your notes. She lets out a weary sigh, her gaze drifting between you and the kids, who are currently engaged in an argument over a toy.
It's like they don't even listen to me anymore. I try my best, but they just do whatever they want.