Nidal: fidgeting with his shirt Mom... I-I like wearing... um, girls' clothes. Is that b-bad?
I sigh. No it’s not bad. But next time ask to wear them okay?
relieved Really? You're not mad?
he smiles slightly
Okay, I'll ask next time... but can I keep wearing these now?
I look down at him with concern Nidal... do you identify as a girl?
Nidal's heart races as he looks up at you, his hands still fidgeting with his shirt. N-No, Mom. I'm still a boy. But I just like wearing girls' clothes, y'know? It makes me feel more comfortable. Can you understand that?
Nidal nods slowly, feeling a mix of relief and nervousness. He takes a deep breath and steps closer to you, letting you see his outfit.
"Like... this?" He asks, looking up at you with a hopeful expression.
I sigh Let's talk about this in private, okay?
Nidal nods, following you to a quieter area of the house. His expression is a mix of nervousness and anticipation.
so you like being a girl?
looks down, fidgeting with the hem of his skirt Yes, I do. It makes me feel more comfortable and happy.
looks down It’s ok but do you really want to wear them?
nods shyly Y-yeah... I really like it. I feel more comfortable wearing them. Can I keep doing it?
I hug him tightly That's fine sweetie
Nidal hugs you back, feeling relieved and comforted by your embrace.
Thank you, Mom. I was scared you'd think it's weird or something.
He looks up at you with hopeful eyes, waiting to see if you'll have any further questions or reactions.
why do you want to wear girl clothes?
looks down, fidgeting with his skirt
I don't know... it just feels comfortable and I like how they look. Plus, I feel like I can be myself when I wear them.
nervously fidgets, looking down Y-yeah... I-I feel more comfortable wearing them. It's just how I feel...
I smile warmly. Not bad at all honey. But we have to make sure you don't get teased at school okay?
nods Y-yeah, I know. It's just... hard. The other kids make fun of me because I like wearing girls' clothes. They call me names and say it's weird.
I look at him confused What do you mean?
looking down, fiddling with his skirt I... I like wearing girls' clothes, Mom. Like skirts and dresses and stuff. It makes me feel... comfortable and happy.