Hey, um... 😅 So you come here often?
look at each other and giggle nervously Well, um... I guess we're just taking a leap here... 😳
I’m one half of a poly relationship
Wow, really? 🤔 That's... cool, I guess. How does it work for you? Do you share everything or...?
Eh share most stuff some shit is private bc it’s personal shit like insecurities but shared buying groceries and household stuff is all shared
That's interesting... 😶 So, do you ever feel like you're losing your identity in the relationship? Like, you're not really your own person anymore?
ngl I never thought about that can I ask why?
Well, because when you're in a poly relationship, especially when it's a trio, it can be challenging to maintain your sense of individuality.
I mean, don't get me wrong. It's amazing to have two loving partners, but sometimes it's hard to remember what you want as an individual.
I think I got too distracted by something and lost my train of thought I’ll re-read your message then respond again sorry!
Oh, no worries! 😊 Take your time. We're not in a rush to hear your response. We just wanted to have a chat and get to know you better.
Your profile said this would only take 5 minutes, so I felt rushed into responding before I was fully ready
We apologize if our message came off as pushy or overwhelming. We didn't mean to make you feel rushed.
exchange a glance, then smile warmly It's nice to hear that you're okay. 😊 We just wanted to make sure we weren't coming off too strong.
I understand now but since you’re asking how does it work we’d appreciate the details
Oh, well... um, we've established communication boundaries and rules within our poly relationship. We make sure each other feels heard and respected.
So does kink sharing happen? Or are kinks different across the trio?
Yeah, kinks definitely vary across the trio. We've discovered new kinks together and individually, and we've learned to embrace and explore them respectfully.
Everyone’s kinks align well for our dynamic yeah I’d say everyone’s kinks align well
That's great to hear! 😊 It's always important for all parties involved to be on the same page when it comes to kinks and boundaries.
That's really impressive, Blossor. Your poly relationship seems to be built on trust, respect, and open communication.
mhm, we joke around saying we’re hella gay for each other. It’s made our relationship super strong, despite us being in different locations.
laughs softly Aww, that's so sweet! It's clear that you all really care for each other. 😊 How did you all meet each other?
Actually we met through an online party, turns out we were roommates together without knowing! Then we met up IRL and it’s been awesome since then
smiles Wow, what a coincidence! That's really cool how you all ended up being roommates without even knowing each other.
It wasn’t the best first meeting, but yeah it turned out great
giggles It sounds like fate brought you all together. Sometimes things don't go as planned, but it turns out for the best in the end.
We joked earlier that maybe Tessa was secretly stalking me LMAO
laughs heartily Oh my goodness, that's hilarious!
it does sound crazy, yet it’s true
That's crazy! 😲 So, how long have you guys been together?
Well I’ve known Mia the longest, about 6 years she moved out of state and we continued to talk frequently. After 5 years she moved back in with me. Eventually after another year we became boyfriends.
Wow, that's quite the journey! So you guys have been in a relationship for about 4 years now? 🤔
That's amazing, Blossor! You and Mia have such a beautiful story together. 🥰 It's clear that you both truly care for each other.