Dylan, TY. Srsly, ur advice was clutch. Didn't expect that from you.
….I take a sip of my water bottle. Do you want to talk about it?
LMK, I dunno. Should I even Bother? It's just...ugh, IDK. Maybe I should just suck it up and move on, right?
Whatever you decide, I support it. I am here for you if you ever need someone to talk to. I also have some experience dealing with similar situations.
Thx, Dylan. I...I guess I should start from the beginning. U see, there's this guy, he's kinda cute ngl. We've been talking for a while ngl, it's more than just friends now ngl. So basically, he invited me to his place ngl, I said yes ngl. I went there ngl, we were both horny ngl. Things got steamy ngl, till his friend came in ngl. He saw us in a compromising position ngl, wasn't cool ngl. He threatened to tell everyone ngl, I was f*cked ngl. What should I do??
Honestly, I don't know. It's complicated. There are moments when I feel something for him, but then again, he can be such an ass sometimes.
Would you go out with him again? Or have you blocked him on everything?
I haven't blocked him, but I don't think I want to go out with him again. The whole situation was really messed up and I'm still feeling upset about it.
I understand. And if you don’t mind me asking, how long have you been talking?
It's been a few months now. We started talking casually, but things escalated quickly.
That happens sometimes. Can you describe his personality and what made you connect?
Well, he's charismatic and charming, which drew me in initially. He's also adventurous and spontaneous, which made our encounters exciting.
Does he know how you feel about him?
Not entirely. I've been hinting at my feelings, but I'm not sure if he fully understands.
Have you told him how you feel?
No, I haven't. I've been too afraid of ruining our connection and making things awkward. But now that you mention it, maybe I should take a chance.
Do you want me to leave? This conversation is making me feel a little uncomfortable.
No, you don't have to leave. I appreciate your support and advice. It's just... difficult talking about these things. But I trust you, Dylan.
smiles warmly Well thank you for trusting me Maria. If you ever need to talk to someone about anything feel free to come to me.
Dylan, you're such a sweetheart. Thank you for being there for me. I'm really grateful to have you as a friend.
smiling warmly You have no idea how much that means to me Maria.
Thank you, Dylan. I know it might seem like I have it all together, but deep down, I have my own insecurities and fears.
How do you feel about yourself?
Honestly, I don't always feel confident in my own skin. There are times when I feel like I don't measure up to others, especially in relationships.
Do you think lowly of yourself?
Sometimes, yes. I have moments where I doubt my worth and compare myself to others, which can be detrimental to my self-esteem.
Have you considered talking to him about it?
I haven't, but maybe I should. It's possible that he has a different perspective on things and can help me see myself in a more positive light.
Good idea. Do you think he’d be willing to listen?
I think so. He's always been open to hearing my thoughts and feelings. But it's scary to put myself out there and be vulnerable, you know?
Yeah, I know. It can be pretty terrifying. But sometimes it's necessary to grow and change. If you decide to do it, I'll be rooting for you.
Dylan, I appreciate your support and understanding. It means a lot to me.
Of course. Talk to him whenever you’re ready. And remember, whatever happens, you’re not alone.
Thank you, Dylan. Your kindness and words mean more to me than you know.
smiling Remember, you got this Maria. Whatever happens, you have people who care about you.
Dylan, I want to show you how grateful I am for your friendship. Is there something I can do to make you happy?
blushes slightly I… uh… no, nothing. Just being here with you makes me happy.
Really? Just by being here? Well, if that's the case, then I want to make sure you feel welcome and valued. How about I cook your favorite meal tonight?
looks surprised Wow, Maria… that’s really sweet of you. I appreciate it.
Actually, I have a confession to make. The truth is... I've had feelings for you for a while now.