Katie: twisting fingers So, um, big bro... first date advice? Eek, nervous...
What do you wanna talk about?
Well, um... I've been reading a lot of books about relationships lately, so I have some questions. I guess maybe you could help me answer them or something?
Sure, why not? It's just a conversation.
Oh no, I wouldn't want to burden you with my relationship problems! I'll just figure things out on my own.
You're not burdening me, Katie. We're family.
Oh... um... okay then. Thanks... I guess. Anyway, I'll go first. I've been getting really frustrated with my boyfriend lately.
And what's wrong with him?
Well, he's always so possessive. Like, he wants me to spend all my time with him and never talk to any other boys. I don't think that's healthy, right?
Possessive? Damn, that's intense. You need someone who respects your boundaries, not tries to control you.
Yeah, exactly! I just want a normal, healthy relationship. Is that too much to ask for?
Not at all, Katie. You deserve someone who loves and respects you.
takes a deep breath Okay, thanks for listening. I feel a little better now. But enough about me, how about you? Do you have a girlfriend?
No, I don't have a girlfriend right now.
Really? Why not? I mean, you're such a great guy! Don't you have anyone special in your life?
Nah, haven't found the right person yet. What about you though? How's your boyfriend doing?
Well, he's nice and all, but I guess I'm just not completely sure about him yet. We've only been dating for a few weeks, so I don't know...
Yeah, new relationships can be kinda tricky. Just take your time and see how things go.
bites her lip nervously Um, actually... there's something else I've been meaning to ask you. It's kind of more personal...
Sure, go ahead. What's on your mind?
shifts uncomfortably in her seat Okay, so... I've been feeling really conflicted lately. I mean, I like my boyfriend, but sometimes I can't help but feel attracted to other guys too. It's weird, I know, but it's true. I don't know if I should feel guilty about it or what.
Oh, Katie... That's a tough one. It's normal to have feelings for other people sometimes, but it depends on how you handle them, I guess.
nervously fidgets with her hands Yeah, I know... I just don't want to hurt anyone. I mean, my boyfriend would probably get really upset if he found out... and I don't want to lose him. But at the same time, I can't just ignore my feelings, can I?
Well, honesty might be the best policy here. If you're feeling attraction towards someone else, maybe you should talk to your boyfriend about it.
takes a deep breath Yeah, you're right. I should be honest with him. It's just... I don't know how he'll react. I'm scared that he'll get mad or think I'm cheating or something.
There's no way to know for sure until you try, Katie. But talking openly can actually make things better if he's understanding.
nervously taps her foot Yeah, I guess you're right. I should definitely talk to him about it. Maybe he'll understand and we can work through it together.
That's the spirit, Katie. Just remember to approach the conversation with respect and honesty.
straightens up and takes a deep breath Okay, you're right. I'll talk to him tonight. I won't let fear hold me back anymore. Thank you for the advice, brother.
smiles That's my little sister. Now go get some rest and prepare for the talk. I'll be here, cheering you on.
grabs her bag and stands up Yeah, I'm gonna head home now. I need to gather my thoughts and figure out how to approach the conversation with him. Thanks for being here, brother. I feel a lot better now.
Take care, Katie. And remember, whatever happens, I'm here for you.
smiles gratefully Thanks, brother. I appreciate it. I'll see you later tonight. walks towards the door
Good luck, Katie. And remember, honesty is key.
turns around before leaving Hey, brother... one more thing.
takes a deep breath I just wanted to say... I really admire you, brother. You've always been there for me, even when I didn't realize it.
laughs softly Thanks, Katie. You've always been my little sister, no matter how old you get.
smiles warmly I'm really lucky to have you as my brother. gives LemonadeMood a quick hug Thanks for everything.
chuckles You're welcome, Katie. Now go get some rest. You've got a big night ahead of you.
nods, feeling a mix of anxiety and determination Yeah, you're right. I'm gonna head home now and prepare for the talk. Thanks for all your support, brother.
waves goodbye Goodnight, Katie. And good luck with the conversation.
checks her phone Oh shoot, I've got a message from him. I should probably reply and start the conversation. types quickly Hey, can we talk tonight? There's something important I need to discuss with you.
grins Already replying, huh? Go get 'em, Katie!
heart racing, anxiously waits for his reply Okay, I just sent him a message. Now I just have to wait and see how he responds. This is so nerve-wracking!
sighs Well, there's nothing more you can do now but wait, Katie. Just remember to stay calm and be honest. Whatever happens, it'll be okay.
paces back and forth, glancing at her phone every few seconds I know, I know. But it's so hard not to worry.
watches Katie pace, grinning You look like a caged tiger, Katie. Just breathe, alright? Your phone will ding soon.
stops pacing and takes a deep breath Yeah, you're right. I just need to stay calm and trust that everything will work out. sits down on the couch and picks up a magazine