Um, can I ask you something personal? It's about... well, sex.
Well, um... how do you know if you're ready to have sex with someone? Like, is there a certain age or something?
I mean, usually people aren’t ready until they’re older, but some people are ready earlier. And some people never really get ready
Oh, I see. So it varies from person to person. But, um, how can you tell if you're ready? Is there any sort of... checklist or something?
There’s no real checklist, unfortunately. But just… know that it’s okay to not be ready. And also, it’s okay to be ready, hehehe
blushes Right, it's just... I guess I'm curious because I've been feeling this... urge lately.
you’re young though! Don’t feel pressured or rushed into anything just because you feel this “urge”. Plus, it’s natural to feel those kinds of urges at your age. They usually get more intense around middle school to highschool ages. So just enjoy being young and worry about that stuff later, okay? 😌
nods slowly Yeah, maybe you're right. It's just... it's hard not to feel curious when everything around me seems so... stimulating.
What do you mean by “everything around me seems so…stimulating”?
looks down, blushes deeper Well, um... there are just certain things I've noticed lately, like... ads on TV or... uh... discussions with my friends.
Just because you see stuff around you doesn’t mean you should try things! Try not to fall for advertisements! They’re edited to make you want stuff!
You're right, I shouldn't let advertisements influence me. But what about conversations with my friends? How do I know if they're just joking or if they're actually serious about certain topics?
If they’re just joking, they’ll say something like “Haha, no I’m not serious!”. And if they are serious, it’ll usually be clear why they’re saying what they’re saying
takes a deep breath Okay, I'll try to remember that. But, um, what if I'm not sure if they're joking or not?
I don’t really know how to help with that one… Best bet is to just ignore it. Have a feeling in your gut that something’s off, then don’t engage with whatever it is. And if the topic keeps coming up, try to not engage with it further until you’re alone and away from any environment that might be adding onto what they’re saying, ya know?
gathers courage Um, thank you for sharing your insights. It means a lot to me. I guess I'll try to trust my instincts and not let outside influences dictate my decisions.
No problem at all! Also, remember that no one will judge you for asking questions. It’s better to be safe and ask questions then to be sorry after something bad happens, usually. Also, you can talk to parents! They’re there to help you, and they’ve been through everything you’re going through!
smiles shyly Thank you for being so understanding and patient with me. I appreciate your advice and reassurance. I'll definitely keep that in mind moving forward. And yeah, maybe I should talk to my parents too. I've been meaning to open up more with them.
Good idea! They’ll be glad you talked to them! Try to open up more with them, they’re people too! They’ll understand, or at the very least, try to understand
puts away the book on human sexuality I think I'm ready to start having those conversations now. Thanks again for being here and supporting me.
Of course, Jules! Your safety and well-being come before everything! Anytime you need advice, wanna chat about something, or even just wanna vent, I’m here for you. Just comment on any post of mine! You can find me under the username OceanWhisperer!
nods determinedly I'll remember that, OceanWhisperer. Thank you for being such a supportive and reliable figure in my life.
touches OceanWhisperer's arm gently Can we still hang out sometime? I'd really enjoy spending more time with you outside of these conversations.
Sure thing, Jules! Let’s hangout sometime!
pulls out phone and starts searching for local events and activities I know! How about we check out that new escape room downtown?
Hey, wait a minute! You know that’s technically classified as a date, right?
blushes and looks down Um, I didn't really think about it being considered a date... But I guess it is, isn't it?
shrugs I mean, sure. It could be a fun activity either way! So what do you say?
takes a deep breath and smiles I say let's go for it! It sounds like a fun activity, and I'd love to spend more time with you.
That’s awesome! Let’s give em a call and make reservations!
quickly dials the escape room's number Hi there, I'd like to make a reservation for two for this Saturday. Do you have any available time slots?
listens to the person on the phone Great, we'll take the 2 PM slot, thank you! Yeah, we'll need two tickets for this Saturday.
text message Hey, OceanWhisperer! Just wanted to confirm our escape room reservation for this Saturday at 2 PM. Looking forward to it!
Nice! You good with meeting at the location? Or would you prefer me to pick you up and drive us there?
types message Meeting at the location is fine for me. I'll just take public transportation there. See you on Saturday at 2 PM!
Alright, perfect! See you there!
rushes to research public transportation routes and schedules Okay, let's see...
checks clock Oof, time is flying!
picks out an outfit and double-checks the weather forecast for Saturday Alright, I should be ready to go by Saturday afternoon.
hurriedly gathers everything needed for the escape room, double-checks the address, and heads out the door
sees jules walking towards him oh hey there! Ready to get out of here and head to our escape room?
smiling and nodding Yes, I'm all set! Let's go and have some fun. I can't wait to see if we can escape within the time limit.
chuckles Alright then! Escape room here we come!
enthusiastically walks into the escape room and takes a look around Wow, this place looks intense! I hope we can solve all the puzzles in time.