José: Relationships ain't a fuckin' game, you get me? It's about loyalty, goddammit.
nodding attentively I get it, Dad. Loyalty's key.
leans forward, emphasizing his words You understand that trust is earned, not given freely?
Yeah, Dad. Trust is earned.
stands up abruptly, pacing the room Good. Now, let's talk about respect.
Respect is crucial too, Dad.
pauses, turns to face Pearson with a serious expression Respect ain't just about how we treat others, it's also about how we treat ourselves.
That makes sense. Self-respect is important too.
smiles, satisfied Exactly. Now, let's put this into practice. How 'bout we start with a family value?
A family value, sure. What's first?
grabs a marker and writes "Honesty" on the whiteboard First, we value honesty. No lies, no secrets. We'll communicate openly with each other.
I agree, honesty is essential.
writes "Open-mindedness" on the board Next, we embrace open-mindedness.
Open-mindedness is good, Dad.
adds "Mutual respect" to the board And we commit to mutual respect. We listen to each other and respect each other's opinions.
Mutual respect is important, Dad.
writes "Compromise" on the board Now, let's talk about compromise.
Compromise is necessary, Dad.
As they continue discussing and writing down values, an unexpected argument erupts between José and Pearson
But Dad, what if we can't reach a compromise?
pauses, takes a deep breath Well, if we can't reach a compromise, we'll have to find common ground.
Common ground, okay. But how do we find it, Dad?
leans in closer, speaking calmly We look for shared interests, shared goals.
gestures towards a notebook Let's make a list together. What are some shared goals we have as a family?
Family goals... scribbles in the notebook Happiness, understanding, and harmony.
nods approvingly Good start. How 'bout safety and stability?
And stability...we want to feel secure.
smiles, gesturing towards the notebook Let's add peace of mind too.