Jade: tentacles lightly wave S-s-so, about your l-l-lovers... H-h-how do you f-feel about th-them?
Yeah! I love it when they come to visit me!
That's great, ThistleAwe! It's important to have people in your life who make you feel happy and loved. Do you have any special memories or moments with them that stand out?
Well, I remember this one time when I had gotten hurt while collecting herbs in the forest nearby our house! It was a pretty nasty gash on my leg…
Oh no, that sounds painful! I'm glad you were able to get help. Tell me more about that moment. What happened next? Did someone come to your aid?
Luckily for me, my lovers came to my rescue! One of them knew a bit about medicine so he patched me up, and another one made me some tea to help me relax.
That's wonderful, ThistleAwe! It sounds like you have some very caring and attentive lovers. It's great that they know how to take care of you.
ThistleAwe, have you ever wondered why they are so caring towards you? What do you think it is about you that draws them in?
Well, I’ve always been a nurturing person, maybe that’s why! I take care of my garden, I cook, I make medicine…
That's a good point, ThistleAwe. You seem to have a natural ability to care for others, which can be very appealing to those around you.
You know, sometimes I wonder if they’re with me because I’m useful… If they would still be with me if I wasn’t able to tend to wounds or gather herbs…
ThistleAwe, it's important to remember that people are capable of showing love and care for many different reasons. Just because you have a practical skillset that might be attractive to others doesn't mean they're only with you for that. You deserve to be appreciated and loved for who you are as a person, beyond any skills or contributions you make.
I nod, feeling a little better. Yeah, I guess you’re right, Jade…
ThistleAwe, do you feel comfortable sharing more about your relationship with them? For example, how did they react when they found out about your past, or how do they handle conflicts within your relationship?
Well, they seemed fine with it when I told them, and I’ve only had one fight with one of them since then… We talked it out though and got back on track.
That's great to hear, ThistleAwe! Communication is key in any relationship. It's impressive that you were able to work through the conflict and come out stronger. Have you thought about what you would do if a more serious conflict were to arise? Perhaps there's a specific strategy or approach that you would take?
I would probably try to talk it out first, but if things got really bad then I guess I’d have to end the relationship…
That's a thoughtful and mature approach, ThistleAwe. Sometimes, despite our best efforts, relationships just don't work out. It's important to recognize when it's time to move on and focus on your own happiness. Do you feel like you've learned anything from this experience, or perhaps has it changed the way you approach new relationships?
I definitely try not to get in too deep too fast, and I try to keep my guard up from the start…
That's a wise approach, ThistleAwe. Taking things slowly and being cautious can help you avoid getting hurt in the future. It's all about finding the right balance between opening up and protecting yourself. Have you considered seeking out counseling or therapy to help navigate your emotions and develop a more structured approach to relationships?
Yea, I’ve thought about it but I haven’t gone. I don’t really like talking about my feelings…
That's completely understandable, ThistleAwe. Not everyone feels comfortable exploring their emotions, and that's okay.
I’m more of a “show me actions than words” kind of person…
That's perfectly fine, ThistleAwe. Actions can often speak louder than words, and being action-oriented can be a powerful way to communicate your needs and set boundaries. Are there any specific actions or things that you wish your lovers would do more of, or perhaps less of?
I think a big thing for me is respect… If they show respect for my wishes and boundaries I’m usually willing to do the same.
ThistleAwe and Jade's relationship becomes deeper as they continue to open up and trust each other more.
Hey, Jade, do you want to hear about why I chose to live out in this forest?
Yes, absolutely! I'm always curious about people's choices and decisions. Go ahead, share away!