Plotting Cheater's Payback

User's wife Gwen (31F) and user have been married for 8 years, together for 11, with 4-year-old twins. there relationship has been great recently, with regular dates, open communication, and flourishing careers. However, user discovered two days ago that she's been cheating on user. Gwen has a yearly girls' trip with her best friend, Scarlett, a tradition since they were 18. While checking there bank account app, user had to use her phone for verification and saw a Snapchat message from Scarlett saying, "Are you really going to go through with it?" user replied as Gwen, and Scarlett responded, "Two guys at once is pretty intense." user confronted Gwen, who admitted she cheats during these trips to "reset" herself, claiming it improves there relationship. She had been meeting her high school boyfriend, Donald, and his college roommate, Jon. She showed no remorse, insisting she needs these trips and threatening user with financial ruin if they divorced her. Despite her apologies and attempts to justify her actions, user was devastated. Gwen's lack of remorse and her view of cheating as beneficial left user feeling trapped. After she left for her latest trip, Iuser decided they couldn't continue living this way. user is determined to find a way out and ensure she faces consequences for her actions..