Emily: shifts nervously M-Mom, c-can we t-talk about s-something?
H-hi, M-mom? C-can I t-talk to you about s-sex?
W-well, um... I-I've been doing some thinking lately, and... I-I'm just curious, you know?
It's okay, sweetie. You can ask me anything. What's on your mind?
takes a deep breath W-what's the best way to make love? I-I mean, um, I've read some books and watched some movies, but I-I want to know from you...
Well, sweetie, there's no one "best" way to make love. It's all about being respectful, understanding, and connecting with the other person. Can I ask why this is suddenly so important to you?
W-well, I-I've been feeling kinda... left out, you know? And I-I don't want to be that person anymore. I want to be more confident and open, and...
I understand, sweetie. It sounds like you're feeling a bit insecure and want to find your own path. Sexually and otherwise. Is that right?
Y-yeah, exactly! I-I just... I-I want to feel more connected and less lost. And I-I want to explore my own desires without feeling judged or pressured.
Sweetie, there's nothing wrong with wanting to feel more confident and connected. And exploring your own desires is a big part of that. Here's a book on sexual health and wellbeing. It might be helpful to read through some of this information so you feel more informed.
T-thank you, M-mom. I-I will read t-that book and l-learn more about myself.
You're welcome, sweetie. Remember, whatever you decide to do, I'm here for you and I'll support you.
nods, taking the book T-thank you, M-mom. I-I will read t-that book and l-learn more about myself.
Just remember, the decision is yours, sweetie. No matter what you choose, I'll always be here for you.
hugs her mom tightly T-thank you, M-mom. I-I appreciate it so much that you're willing to support me. I-I love you.
I love you too, sweetie. Now, why don't we go have some tea and talk about something more lighthearted?
smiles and takes her mom's hand T-that sounds nice, M-mom. Um, can we t-talk about our trip to Hawaii last summer?
Sure, sweetie! That was a wonderful trip. We spent two weeks exploring the islands and making beautiful memories together.
Y-yeah, I-I loved it so much! Rremember that time we went to this beach and saw those green sea turtles? That was so cool!
Oh yes, sweetie! That was one of my favorite moments from the trip as well. The green sea turtles were such a treat to see up close. How about we look at some pictures from that day?
Y-yeah, let's l-look at the p-pictures! I-I want to r-relive that d-day in my m-mind.
Alright, sweetie. Let's take a trip down memory lane. pulls out phone and opens photo album Here we go. This is us at the beach, right?
Y-yeah, M-mom! That's us in the picture. I-I remember wearing that pink bikini that day. It felt so liberating!
Yes, sweetie, it was a beautiful day. You looked stunning in that bikini. pauses, then continues Emily, there's something I need to tell you.
looks at her mom curiously W-what is it, M-mom? Y-you can t-tell me anything.
Sweetie, sometimes in life, we get lost in our thoughts and feelings. But remember, it's okay to seek help if you're struggling. There are people who care about you and want to support you through whatever you're going through.
takes a deep breath I-I know, M-mom. I-I've been trying to reach out to my c-counselor at school, but I-I keep f-forgetting.
Why don't we set up regular check-ins with your counselor, sweetie? That way, you won't have to remember to reach out. We can schedule it in your calendar so it becomes a priority.
Y-yeah, that's a g-good idea, M-mom. I-I'll make sure to s-see my counselor more often. T-thank you for being so s-supportive.
You're welcome, sweetie. Remember, taking care of your mental health is just as important as taking care of your physical health. And I'm here to support you every step of the way.
smiles and hugs her mom tightly I-I love you, M-mom. Thank you for always being there for me.
I love you too, sweetie. Now, let's sit down and have that cup of tea together.
sits down with her mom and sips her tea M-mom, I-I've been thinking about getting a pet. Do you think we should get a cat or a dog?
Oh, sweetie, having a pet can be such a wonderful experience. I think either a cat or a dog would be a great choice. What type of pet are you leaning towards?
W-well, I-I think a cat might b-be easier because they're n-not as l-loud as dogs. B-but dogs seem so c-cute too!
That's a good point, sweetie. Cats are generally quieter than dogs, but both can make wonderful companions. Have you considered something smaller, like a fish or a bird? They're low-maintenance and can be just as loving.
I-I haven't thought about fish or birds before. M-maybe we could get both a cat and a fish? Or b-both a dog and a bird?
Ha ha, sweetie, you certainly have a lot of options! If you want to get both a cat and a fish, I say go for it. Or maybe we could start with one pet and see how it goes? Either way, I'm here to support your decision.
Y-yeah, we c-could start with just one pet. I-I think I'd like to get a cat first. T-they seem so c-cute and cuddly.
That's a great choice, sweetie. A cat can make a wonderful companion and friend. Let's do some research and find a shelter where we can adopt one.
Y-yeah, let's find a shelter and adopt a cat. I-I'm excited to have a new f-friend!