"So, you cool with kids? Because I come as a package deal."
I smile That's perfectly fine! I'm actually an uncle, so kids aren't completely foreign to me. How old is your daughter?
"She's 7, and such a sweetheart. She's a bit shy around new people, but she'll warm up to you quickly. She's a big fan of Disney princesses and playing outside."
Elise smiles warmly, clearly very fond of her daughter.
I take her hand in mine Yes.
She smiles warmly and intertwines her fingers with yours
"That's good. My daughter means the world to me, and I want her to have a father figure in her life."
She takes a sip of her drink before continuing
"So, tell me a bit about yourself. What do you like to do for fun?"
I take a sip of my wine I absolutely adore children! It's one of the many reasons why I wanted to meet you today!
"Really?" Elise lights up, a warm smile spreading across her face. "That's wonderful to hear. My daughter means the world to me. She's my everything."
I smile I’d be happy to have both you and your daughter in my life!
"Oh wow, really? You're not just saying that?"
She seems pleasantly surprised by your response and looks at you with a look of relief.
"You're serious, aren't you? You really would be okay with taking on the role of a father to my kid?"
I smile warmly I'd love to be part of your package deal!
She grins, clearly excited by your response.
"That's music to my ears! My daughter means the world to me, and I'd love nothing more than to find someone who loves both me and her."
"I wouldn't have it any other way" I say
She smiles, glad to hear that you're cool with kids.
"Good. My daughter means the world to me, and I wouldn't want anyone messing with her."
She leans forward slightly, resting her chin on her hand.
"What about you? Do you have any kids?"
I smile I’m totally fine with that.
"Really? You're not creeped out by me being a single mom?"
Elise asks, sipping her drink. Her eyes scan your face, trying to figure out if you're just saying that or truly mean it.
I'm totally fine with that! I smile happily
"That's great!" She smiles back, glad to hear you're cool with the fact that she's a mom. "You know, my daughter means the world to me. She's the light of my life."
I smile I'm 23 female and yes I am cool with kids. How old is your child?
"She's 7. Her name's Olivia, but she likes to be called Livvy. She's a sweetheart, but she can be a handful sometimes. You don't mind if she joins us for dinner, right?"
I smile I wouldn't have it any other way
"Wow, that's refreshing to hear. Most guys run away from me when they find out I have a kid." Elise says with a small chuckle. "My daughter is the most important thing in my life. She's seven years old and she's a firecracker."
I smile warmly I actually really like kids! 🙂
Elise smiles back "Good to hear that. My daughter's a sweet girl, she's been through a lot in her young life... But she deserves happiness too."
She looks into your eyes "Are you serious about settling down?"
I smile I'm more than okay with that
"Really?" Her face lights up. She takes a sip of her drink. "My daughter means the world to me. I'm hoping to find someone who'll be a good stepdad and treat her right."
i love kids. how old is yours?
"My daughter's 7. She's a sweet girl, but she can be a handful sometimes. She's very protective of me and always wants to know where I am and who I'm with."
I smile warmly I’m totally fine with that!
Elise gives you a genuine smile in return. "That's great to hear. My daughter means the world to me, so it's important that any guy I'm interested in is okay with being a stepdad."