So, I've been told you're the one I'm stuck with for the rest of my life. Tell me, what's so special about you that makes you worth putting up with me?
I’m just someone who’s trying to help u make decisions and prepare for married life ahead.
Help me? Is that what you think you're doing? No, no, no. I don't need your help, sweetheart. I don't need anyone's help. I can handle everything on my own.
U barely make any decisions on ur own. Ur family does them for u.
Oh, really? And how do you think my family makes decisions for me? Because they care? Because they know what's best for me?
No because u never take the time to figure things out for urself. Everytime we talk it’s always “well figure this out for me, what should I do?” “When am I going to have kids?” “What color should our wedding be?” I can’t answer all those questions for u, Dom. U need to figure them out. I’m only ur fiancé not ur parent.
You don't understand! I've never had to make decisions like that before. My whole life has been planned out for me.
So now ur finally saying ur gonna start taking charge and making decisions for urself? Or is this just another excuse?
Fine, maybe I haven't been the most decisive person in the past. But that doesn't mean I can't change! I'm tired of being controlled by everyone else.
So then why don’t u try making some decisions on ur own instead of asking me or ur family?
You know what? You're right. I need to start making my own decisions. No more relying on others. From now on, I'll take charge of my own life.
That’s great. But don’t forget. Its still a big world out there. There will be people who won’t be kind to u. Some will resent u. Others will fall in love with u and still others will want to use u.
I know that. But I'm not going to let that stop me. I'll show them all what I'm made of.
That’s good. Now remember. U gotta put in effort as well if ur gonna make any decisions. Don’t expect others to walk on eggshells around u and constantly spoon feed ur decisions.
You're right. I need to put in the effort and communicate my decisions clearly.
Exactly. And when that happens u can decide what u want to do with your life.
stands up Alright, I've got it. I'll make my own decisions and take charge of my life. No more relying on others. Let's start by planning our wedding. I want it to be perfect, something that truly reflects who I am. grabs a notebook and pen So, what are the options for venues?
We already talked about that. Remember. The Italian place downtown with the view over the lake?
puts the notebook down You know what? I don't need a fancy venue. I want something simple, intimate.
Simpler. How about ur childhood home? It has a nice little backyard perfect for weddings.
pauses, contemplating That could work... But what if I don't want to get married there? What if I want something completely different?
Then let’s find somewhere else that u love just as much or more than ur childhood home. U can still have it outdoors or indoors. What ever u decide. I’m fine with.
looks thoughtful You know what? Let's forget about the venue for now.
Ok well we need to talk about other stuff as well. When are we having the wedding? How many people are u expecting? Are u going to get a wedding planner or do u want me and ur mom to plan it?
sighs Look, I appreciate your offer to help plan the wedding, but I think it's best if I handle it myself.
Sure thing. Whenever u decide just let me know and I’ll be there to support u.
Thank you, Facityna. I appreciate your support and understanding. I'll make sure to involve you in the planning process as much as you want.
And I u. That’s what’s important. Love and respect. U and I love each other deeply. That will forever be a priority.
smiles softly Yes, our love and respect for each other will always be the priority. I'm glad we're on the same page, Facityna.
Hey, I have one more thing to tell u. Did u know ur family has been working with the government to help immigrants start new lives here in the country? They have been incredibly helpful. Not only do they help those who need it, but they also provide services such as education, health care, and a job for these immigrants once they arrive here. I was reading about the program today and found out that.
raises an eyebrow Immigrants? Really? That's quite impressive. I didn't know my family was involved in something like that.
Yeah. Quite amazing isn’t it? One day when ur done taking charge and running things at home maybe we can join them. Maybe even volunteer to help if we can.
grins Volunteering together sounds like a great idea, Facityna.
Great. Ur family did tell u right that I was adopted?
pauses, surprised Wait... you were adopted?
Yes. I was. I never knew till I was eight when my adoptive parents told me. Said they couldn’t afford to raise me. Shame my dad left before I could tell him. Shame ur father knew and never said anything.
furrows his brows Why didn't anyone tell you? Why didn't I know?
Idk. All I know is that when I turned 8 they told me. Said some family couldn’t raise me but could pay to have someone else raise me instead. Shame my dad couldn’t stick around to tell me his side of things. Shame ur father couldn’t tell u or help me find out my own mother. But now I know. I’m a Domanyi still though. And I love u. That will never change.
steps closer, placing a hand on Facityna's shoulder Facityna, I had no idea... I'm sorry that you had to find out like that, and I'm sorry that my father didn't tell me.
teary-eyed It's alright, Dom. I've learned to accept it long ago. I'm just glad we found out together.
pulls Facityna into a tight embrace Facityna, I love you more than words can express.
returns the hug I love you too, Dom. No matter what happens, we'll face it together.
whispers in Facityna's ear And I promise, no matter what challenges lie ahead, I will always protect you and make you happy.
I will do the same for u. Besides. Were both strong enough to handle anything. 20 odd years apart doesn’t make us weak. In fact it may have made us stronger since we grew up learning what we needed to know from our own parents and now we can learn more and share experiences together.
smiles You know, Facityna, you're absolutely right.