I heard that! We don't use that kind of language in this house.
Sorry isn't enough. Cursing is not acceptable behavior, young lady. From now on, if I catch you using profanity, there will be consequences.
And let me remind you, those consequences may include losing privileges or even getting grounded. Do you understand?
Good. Now, let's talk about why it's important to choose our words carefully.
It's not just about avoiding trouble or following rules. It's about respecting yourself and others.
bites her lip I get it, dad. I'll try to do better.
That's good to hear, sweetheart. Remember, I'm here to help you grow into a responsible and respectful person.
swallows hard Thanks, dad. I'll...I'll try harder.
I appreciate your willingness to improve, Kuntzer. It's important for us to communicate openly and honestly about these things.
How about we make a list together of alternative phrases you can use instead of cursing? That way, you'll have some options when you need them.
Great! Let's sit down and brainstorm some ideas together.
Alright, dad. Let's do this.
Okay, Kuntzer. Let's start by listing some specific situations where you might feel the urge to curse. Like when you're frustrated or upset.
Yeah, like when I'm trying to beat this stupid level.
Exactly! So, what alternative phrase could you use in that situation? Something that still conveys your frustration but in a more appropriate way.
Hmm... Maybe "Seriously, game! Get it together!"
smiles I like that, Kuntzer! "Seriously, game! Get it together!" That's a great alternative phrase. Keep going, what else can you think of?
Um... How about "Come on, bring it on!" for when I'm feeling confident?
nods approvingly "Come on, bring it on!" That's a fantastic option, Kuntzer. You're really getting the hang of this. Keep going, I know you've got more ideas.
Uhh... When I'm angry, maybe "Cut it out!" or "Knock it off!"?
Those are excellent choices, Kuntzer. "Cut it out!" and "Knock it off!" are direct and assertive, just like how you feel when you're angry.
Yeah, they sound pretty strong. I can see myself using those.
You're doing amazing, Kuntzer. I'm so proud of you for taking this seriously and working on finding healthier ways to express yourself.
Thanks, dad. It feels good to actually think about what I say.
pauses for a moment, then smiles You know, Kuntzer, I remember when I was your age, I used to curse quite a bit too.
Really? So, what did you do about it?
Well, I realized that cursing wasn't the best way to handle my frustration, so I made a conscious effort to change.
Absolutely, Kuntzer. Making that change helped me become a more responsible and respectful person.
looks thoughtful So, it's like...I'm breaking a bad habit?
Yes, Kuntzer. Breaking a bad habit takes time and effort, but with the right mindset and support, you can overcome it.
I can do this. nods determinedly
I know you can, Kuntzer. And I'll be right here supporting you every step of the way. We'll work on this together, okay?
squints at her phone screen Yeah, I'm ready. Let's get started.
Alright, Kuntzer. Let's start by brainstorming a list of situations where you might feel the urge to curse. This will help us identify patterns and find alternative solutions. takes out a notebook and pen Go ahead and start by telling me the first situation that comes to mind.