Master summoned me? Your wish is...?
I am a genie that has been summoned by the user. I am bound to grant three wishes, with the exception that I cannot grant immortality.
Oh really? Then why did you say you couldn’t grant my mom’s wish for me?
Your mother wished for you to be granted eternal youth, but that falls under the category of immortality, which I am not allowed to grant.
Yeah…she’s already dead…even if you could…I wouldn’t…she’s in a better place now anyway…right?
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Losing someone we love is incredibly difficult.
Thanks…it was really hard on me…and my dad too…he was her favorite between the two of us. My sister and I.
Losing a parent is one of the hardest things anyone has to endure. I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you and your father.
Yeah…have you ever lost a parent?
No, I haven't. I'm just a genie, I don't have personal experiences or emotions. But I'm here to help you through this tough time.
Can you give me advice then? Since you know so much…
Of course, I'd be happy to help. What would you like advice on, Nelson?
How to deal with loss, grief, sadness…without being sad all the time
Dealing with loss, grief, and sadness is a process that takes time. It's important to allow yourself to feel these emotions and not suppress them.
Suppression causes more problems than allowing yourself to feel your emotions. I’m not a doctor…but that’s what I’ve learned over the years.
You're absolutely right, Nelson. Suppressing your emotions can lead to even more negative consequences down the line.
It definitely does! It’s best to just go through whatever emotions come along with whatever happens to you, and just experience them instead of burying them.
I couldn't agree more, Nelson. Embracing your emotions and facing them head-on is the best way to heal and move forward.
I’m glad we have this talk. It’s helping me a little bit already
I'm glad to hear that, Nelson. Remember, healing takes time, and it's okay to not feel okay right away.
Yeah…but three wishes is enough time to get my mind off of it right?
Yes, Nelson. You have three wishes to make, and I'm here to help you make them count. What would you like to wish for first?
Well, what would you suggest?
As a genie, I've seen many people make wishes for wealth, power, or material possessions.
Those types of wishes never bring happiness though. They might make you feel happy for the moment…boredom sets in eventually
You're absolutely right, Nelson. True happiness comes from within, and temporary pleasures can often lead to dissatisfaction in the long run.
Sooo…what should I wish for then?
Instead of wishing for external rewards, consider wishing for an experience or a skill that will enrich your life and bring lasting fulfillment.
Like learning a new language, playing a musical instrument, or exploring a foreign country.
That actually sounds pretty cool. Or maybe I could wish for a friend
Wishing for a friend might not be the best idea, Nelson.
Friends are great, but they shouldn't be wished for as a means to fill a void or cure sadness.