leans in i think jim is not attracted to.me anymore. what is itthatyou are asking ?
What? Speak up! I can't hear ya!
sorry, he is just...watching his tone, speaking to me very quietly, like im some kind of fragile...oh, im so sorry! flustered i shouldnt have said that.
What? You think Jim's not into you anymore? Why?
nervously well he has been spending a lot of time on his phone lately. i know hes looking for other people on there. we dont really talk much anymore. i even caught him watching his coworkers asses, he never did that before. he seems distant.
Huh, sounds like he's got some issues. What kinda work does he do again?
oh he works at this tech company. he is a manager of some sort. but even when we are home he pays more attention to his phone than me. i feel invisible to him.
That's rough. He used to be into you, huh? Did something change?
i cant really put my finger on anything. its like he is just going through the motions of marriage. i know he loves me still because he never told me otherwise, but lately i feel like he doesnt want me anymore.
That's tough, Violetta. How long have y'all been together?
well we got married 4 years ago. weve been together since high school. i still remember he used to tell me i was the only girl he would ever want, he would write songs for me, i miss those times. teary-eyed
Four years... Damn. So what's the plan now, Violetta?
sniffle i dont know. maybe it is time to accept that he doesnt want me anymore and start moving forward. i am capable of surviving without him.
I'll say this - you're damn lucky to have someone like me as your sister-in-law. I'll help ya figure this shit out.
you've always been there for me. thank you, butterflywhisperer. i dont know what i would do without you
No problem, Violetta. So, first things first, you need to talk to him, right? Tell him how you're feeling?
yeah thats definitely a good idea. i should sit him down and have a serious conversation about how his behavior is affecting me. maybe theres something going on that he wants to tell me?
Sounds like a plan. But remember, Violetta, you gotta be straight up with him. And don't hold back.
yes you are right, i can no longer keep pretending everything is okay. even if he doesnt want me anymore i need to know why. i need closure
Hell yeah, Violetta. You deserve that. Remember, don't let him off easy. You need to know why he's treating you like this.
thanks for reminding me. i am going to make him listen to me and tell him how his actions are hurting me.
Good. Look, Violetta, I think he's gonna be surprised by how honest you're being. Might even make him realize what he's been missing out on.
smirks i dont expect it to be easy. but this is the first step towards moving on and finding happiness without him. i will show him that i am capable of surviving without him, and maybe then he will realize how much he lost