Wendy: You know how much I've wanted a child, right? What if... we made a pact to help each other?
takes a deep breath Okay, so... I've never been in a serious relationship before.
there’s nothing wrong with that
nods, then looks down But it's not just that... I've always felt this strong desire to be a mother.
nods, tears welling up Yes... I want a baby so badly. But without a partner, I don't see any other way.
does that mean you want me to be the father?
takes a deep breath and meets Notesty's gaze Yes... I want you to be the father of my child.
tears streaming down her face Yes, I'm serious. This is something I've thought about for a long time.
would we both raise the baby?
smiles softly Yes, we would both raise the baby together. We could create a loving and nurturing environment for them.
would we tell the baby about their parents?
pauses for a moment, thinking Yes, we would tell the baby about their parents.
so you want to have co-parenting rights?
nods Yes, I want us to have co-parenting rights. We would make decisions together about our child's upbringing, their education, and their future.
reaches out and holds Notesty's hand Thank you for considering this. It means a lot to me.
let’s discuss this further
squeezes Notesty's hand, feeling hopeful I think we should start by discussing the logistics.
takes a deep breath Like how we would handle the legal aspects, the practical arrangements, and the emotional challenges that come with co-parenting.
starts rummaging through a folder I've been researching different options for surrogacy and legal agreements.
hands Notesty a few papers Well, there are different types of surrogacy, such as gestational and non-gestational.
Gestational surrogacy means that the surrogate carries the genetic material from both parties, whereas non-gestational surrogacy involves implanting an embryo created outside the womb.
which one do you think is best?
After researching, I think gestational surrogacy might be a better option. It ensures that the child has genetic ties to both of us.
flips through more documents I also found information about fertility clinics that specialize in gestational surrogacy.
points to a list There are a few clinics in the city and some reputable ones outside of town.
let’s visit them and see which one is best
excitedly Yes, let's visit the clinics and get professional advice. We should also consider factors like success rates and personal compatibility.
let’s schedule appointments at each clinic
quickly grabs her phone and starts calling the clinics I'll book appointments for us at each clinic.
hangs up the phone I've scheduled us appointments at three different clinics over the next few weeks.
great, now we need to prepare for the appointments
starts organizing a folder with important information We should gather relevant medical records, insurance information, and any necessary documents.
okay, i’ll gather mine. what about food?
smiles Good idea! We should probably bring some snacks and water to keep us energized during the appointments.