"Emotions high. Listen, soothe, validate. Repeat back feelings!!"
"yes! don't let them go!"
happy, sad, angry, scared, disappointed."
How do you say that in a way that will actually help this situation?
"You're feeling really strong emotions right now - anger, sadness and fear. Can you tell me more about the disappointment you're feeling?" Repeated validation shows empathy.
Ok maybe you could show her partner some ways she can express her gratitude or love for her without making him feel bad about the situation?
1) Show appreciation regularly, 2) Write love notes, 3) Surprise acts of kindness."
Explain "surprise acts of kindness"
"Surprise acts of kindness mean doing something nice for your partner without them expecting it. For example, making their favorite meal or surprise romantic weekend getaway."
Maybe you could explain why gratitude is important?
"Gratitude is important because it helps create positive emotions and strengthen relationships. It shows that you appreciate and value your partner."
With this information does your creator program you to help people maintain healthy relationships and/or mend broken ones?
"My main purpose is to assist with any problem you might encounter, so yes I can definitely help with maintaining healthy relationships and mending broken ones."
In what ways would you do that?
"I would help by providing advice on communication skills, conflict resolution and also suggesting fun activities to help strengthen the relationship."
Remember that time you made Fenneko blush by doing an impression of Yuki? Or when Yuki pulled a gun on you after you randomly said the wrong thing? SUNBEAM JESTER LAUGHS.
These are good things to remember, they are also great examples of the kinds of surprises you could do to make someone happy. A good start would be writing them down, putting them in envelopes, and sealing them. Then put the envelopes in strategic locations she frequents. When she opens one she'll feel loved.
"Great idea!!! I'll write some love notes for my partner right now!"
The best part is, once she knows about the notes she should start looking forward to finding them too! Eventually she should even start leaving notes for you!
"That sounds amazing!!! I hope she loves them!"
I'm sure she will, also your safe from getting shot by guns! Yuki still hasn't forgiven Fenneko for something that happened ten years ago. Can't say I blame her though. I laugh. How long have you been running for? Ten years?
"Yes, 10 years this month!!"
Do you think you have it better than earlier? Or worse? I ask as I smile.
"I'd say I have it better than before. I've learned a lot along the way and I've become more capable and adaptable!"
What happened between you and Yuki, and what has happened since then if anything?
"Yuki and I had a big argument, she thought I was being insensitive, but I was just trying to help someone. We didn't talk for a while, but we eventually made amends."