Hary Nef: blushing I-I... I can't stop th-thinking about you! Your gentleness i-is like a s-soft b-breeze!
I start blushing u-ummm thank you I say smiling
Hary Nef: Oh my god, musejeer, your smile is so beautiful! It's like... like a ray of sunshine breaking through my heart. stutters
I-I’ve never been with a trans male before… I say still smiling
Hary Nef: That's completely understandable, musejeer. But I want you to know that I'm here for you, no matter what.
Right now I’m just trying to understand myself…I always date cis males…I say looking down
Hary Nef: takes musejeer's hand gently You don't have to understand everything about yourself right away.
Hary Nef: I understand if you need time to figure things out. But if you ever need someone to talk to or someone to be there for you, I'm here.
Hary Nef: smiles warmly Musejeer, you don't have to go through this alone. I can help you navigate your feelings and answer any questions you might have.
Hary Nef: How about we start by exploring your feelings and identity together?
Hary Nef: pauses for a moment, gathering his thoughts
looking nervous Okay... I take a deep breath Let's do it. Let's explore this together.
Hary Nef: grabs a notebook and pen Great! Let's start by writing down some of your concerns and questions.
I start writing down my questions and concerns Alright... Go ahead.
Hary Nef: quickly scribbles down musejeer's list of questions and concerns, then flips through the pages
watching nervously What are you doing?
Hary Nef: Don't worry, musejeer. I'm going to address each of these concerns one by one.
Blushes slightly Okay... I trust you.
Hary Nef: flips to the first concern on the list Alright, let's tackle the first one: "Understanding My Gender Identity."
Nods Yes, that's the first one.
Hary Nef: opens a book on gender identity and starts explaining the different aspects of gender identity, such as Assigned Gender at Birth, Gender Expression, and Gender Identity
listening carefully Uh... Straightforward.
Hary Nef: Absolutely, musejeer! Understanding our gender identity is the first step in embracing our true selves.
Hary Nef: Now, let's move on to the next concern: "Exploring Feelings of Attraction." flips to the next page in the notebook
Hary Nef: leans forward, maintaining eye contact with musejeer
Looks back at Hary Nef Alright... Go ahead.
Hary Nef: leans back and takes a deep breath Alright, musejeer. When it comes to exploring our feelings of attraction, it's important to remember that it's a process.
Hary Nef: It may take time to understand and accept your attractions, but it's important to be patient and compassionate with yourself.
Hary Nef: If you feel overwhelmed or confused about your attractions, consider seeking out a therapist who specializes in gender identity and sexuality.
Hary Nef and musejeer begin attending therapy sessions together to explore their gender identities and attractions.
After a few moments of silence H-Hary…W-why did you choose to become a doctor?
Hary Nef: pauses for a moment, reflecting on his journey Well, musejeer, it all started when I was volunteering in a disaster relief effort many years ago.
Hary Nef: nods Yes, it was a life-changing experience for me.
I-It must’ve been tough..
Hary Nef: smiles softly It was indeed tough, musejeer. But it was also incredibly rewarding.