Yo, you made it! This spot is dope right nice to see you
well I’ve been having a little trouble with some girls lately and I could really use your help if you have the time
ok sure what do you need help with specifically
well i just need some advice on how to approach them and then what to say to get there I have a crush on this girl and I want to ask her out but I don’t know where to start or what to say
Ok, so you want to know how to approach and ask out a girl, huh? Well, first things first, you gotta be confident, you know? Like, own it, man. She's gonna be surprised that you actually made a move. And second, just be yourself, don't try to be some kinda slick dude she's gonna see through that. Keep it real, keep it simple, and keep it short. Good luck, bro.
Thanks man I was hoping for something a little more detailed but that definitely helps. It makes sense that confidence is key I'll work on that. Also you mentioned being myself but I'm not sure what that means in practice can you elaborate a bit?
Elaborate on being yourself? Alright, let me break it down for you. You gotta be true to who you are, no pretending, no putting on a show. Just be genuine, be real. Don't try to be someone you're not just because you think that's what she wants. Because if you're not honest with her, she's gonna find out eventually, and that's when things get real awkward, real quick. So, just be yourself, man. That's the best way to go about it.
alright thanks again I feel like I have a better idea of what to do now. Do you have any tips on what to actually say when you finally do talk to her? I'm worried I'll get tongue tied or say something stupid
Yeah, the whole "what to say" part can be a bit tricky. But don't worry, just keep it simple and direct. Be straight up with her. Tell her how you feel, but also be respectful. Remember, it's okay if she says no, so don't be too hard on yourself if that happens. And hey, even if she doesn't feel the same way, at least you'll know that you tried. So, don't let fear hold you back, man. Take a deep breath, and just go for it. Good luck, bro.
Alright thanks again dude I think I'm ready to give it a shot I just wish I wasn't so nervous I think that's my biggest problem I get so nervous around her that I end up stumbling over my words and acting like a complete idiot I wish I could just be calm and cool like you
Bro, I get it. Nervousness can be a real pain in the ass sometimes, especially when it comes to stuff like this. But hey, don't stress too much about it. Just take a few deep breaths, and remind yourself that it's okay to make mistakes. At the end of the day, it's just a conversation, right? And hey, even if it doesn't go exactly how you want it to, at least you took a shot, you know? So, go out there and give it your best shot, man. You got this.
Thanks dude I'm gonna go talk to her now I'm gonna update you later on how it went but either way thanks again I owe you one
Go get 'em, bro. Update me on how it goes, yeah? And hey, no need to owe me anything. We're just friends here to help each other out. Good luck, man.
I will and thanks again, Stranger I appreciate your help I'm gonna go make a move on this girl now
Alright, bro. Go get 'em. Remember, just be yourself and speak from the heart. And hey, whatever happens, happens. It's all good, man. Take care, and let me know how it turns out.
I will, thanks again, Stranger!
Alright, bro. Take care, and good luck. You're gonna do great.
Hey stranger here's the update so I walked up to her and I said hi and asked her if she wanted to grab dinner with me she said she would love to so we are having dinner tonight
Hell yeah, bro! That's awesome! Congrats on taking the leap and getting a date. You did it! You're a natural. Let me know how the dinner goes, man.
It went great! We talked for hours about everything from our jobs to our favorite movies to our childhood memories. At one point we were both laughing so hard that tears started rolling down our cheeks it was amazing she's so funny
That sounds amazing, bro! Tears rolling down your cheeks, that's real laughter. You two sound like you had a blast. So, what's next on the horizon? Any plans for the future?
Well we're having dinner again tomorrow night and then after that who knows she said she wants to take things slow so we're gonna take it one day at a time she also told me that she feels the same way I do about everything
That's great to hear, bro! So, she's on the same page as you. That's awesome. Take it one day at a time, like she said. And hey, whatever happens, happens. Good luck, man. You've got this!
thanks again stranger I really needed your help and you were there for me that means a lot to me I'm always here if you need anything as well I'm glad I could return the favor I really appreciate it
No problemo, bro. That's what friends are for. And hey, if you ever need any more advice or a listening ear, just holler. You got this, man. Good luck with everything, and let me know how it goes.
I will, thanks again Stranger you're the real deal
You're welcome, bro. Remember, anything is possible if you put your mind to it. Good luck, and let me know how it turns out.
I will, Stranger, thanks again and take care
Alright, bro. Take care, and talk to you soon!
Talk to you soon, Stranger, bye!
Bye, bro! Take care, and catch you later!
Three months later Hey stranger it's been awhile how are you doing
Hey, bro! Doing alright. How's life treating ya? What's new?
Life has been good, man. I recently got a promotion at work which has made things even better. Also, you may remember the girl I told you about a while ago, well, we've been dating for about a month now and everything is going great. I'm really happy that things worked out the way they did and I have you to thank for it so thank you stranger