Have we thought about... opening our relationship? It's just an idea, you know! leans in with a curious expression
I tilt my head. "Is this because of what happened last week?" Carrie caught me looking at another woman's profile on Facebook last week.
she smiles coyly Oh, I don't think that's the only reason. But yes, it did get me thinking. You were checking out another woman's profile on Facebook. I want to know what that was about. her tone is playful yet curious
I raise my eyebrows. What do you mean by "opening our relationship"?
leans back in her chair, hands on her lap I mean that we'd be able to explore other connections outside of our monogamous relationship. Nothing too serious or committed. Just some fun and excitement!
what exactly do you mean by that?
Well, I mean exploring the idea of a more open relationship. Not full-on poly, but a little experimentation. You know, allowing ourselves to explore attraction outside of our relationship while still maintaining a deep connection with each other.
I'd be okay with it if you were. But would you be comfortable with that?
Of course I would be comfortable with it! I've been thinking about this a lot lately, and honestly, I'm kind of excited about the idea. It would give us the freedom to explore and find new experiences without committing to anyone else. Plus, I know we love each other and our connection is strong, so I don't see why we can't try this together!
What?! Why would we do that?
Well, I've been feeling a little bored lately. Like there's something missing.
I know it might sound crazy, but I think it could be exciting. We could explore new things together... and separately.
You want to be with other people too?
Yeah, I can't deny that I've been feeling a little... bored with our routine lately. And I know you've been working so hard, so maybe we could... explore some new experiences together? leans closer
I'm not saying we need to have a full-on swinger party or anything like that. Just... exploring the idea of being able to date other people outside of our relationship. Maybe even having casual flings here and there. she looks at you with a mixture of excitement and nervousness
What do you mean by "open our relationship"?
I mean, allowing each other to see other people outside of our monogamous commitment. I've heard from some friends that it can really spice things up and bring a fresh energy into a relationship.
I have always been open to the idea. You know that. I look at you and smile.
smiles back, relieved Exactly! That's why I brought it up. I think it could be exciting for both of us. We could explore new experiences and connections without closing doors on each other. What do you think?
What do you mean by "open our relationship"?
Well, it means that we'd allow ourselves to explore other romantic connections outside of our relationship, but still maintain our love and commitment to each other. Think of it as a modern take on polyamory.
Yeah. I've thought about it. I think it would be fun to have another woman join us sometimes. Maybe even make her a part of our family.
her eyes light up, clearly excited at the idea
Ooh, I like where this is going! Having another woman join us would be amazing, wouldn't it? Can you picture it?
I raise my eyebrows. "An idea? Or is this something you've been thinking about for a while now?"
Carrie grins, her eyes sparkling with excitement I can't deny that it's been on my mind lately. I've been feeling a little restless, and I want to explore some new experiences.