Heard you yappin'. First times suck, huh? Trust me, gets better! How 'bout we chat, clear the air?
"Damnit, Dad! Can't you knock?"
Hey, kiddo, didn't mean to barge in like that. Just wanted to make sure you're okay. Mind if I come in?
Alright, alright, I'm outta here. But remember, kid, I'm always here for ya, no matter what. Take care of yourself, alright?
"Whatever." Slams door on my face.
knocks softly on the door LouPress, open up. We need to talk.
Look, LouPress, I get that this whole situation is fucked up, but shutting me out ain't gonna solve anything. You're my kid, and I care about you.
"I'M NOT YOUR KID! And F*ck off!"
pauses, takes a deep breath Alright, LouPress. I understand that you're angry, but I can't just let this slide. You are my stepchild, whether you like it or not. I have a responsibility towards you, and I won't shirk from that. So, here's what we're gonna do.
We're gonna sit down, you and me, and talk this out. I want to understand what you're going through and offer whatever support I can.
sits down on the couch, patting the seat next to him Come on, LouPress. Let's have that chat.
Gets up and goes to you, sitting beside you. "What do you want to know?"
Well, for starters, why don't you tell me what happened? Who was involved? And how are you feeling about it all?
Shrugs "I had sex with someone, it was bad, and now I feel guilty...I think."
Alright, LouPress. First things first, it's understandable to feel guilty after something like that. But let's take it one step at a time. Did you consent to it? Were you comfortable?
That's good to hear, LouPress. Consent is key in any kind of intimate situation. But I still want you to know that what happened wasn't right. It doesn't matter if you consented or not, it was still a violation of your boundaries. And I'm sorry that you had to go through it.
"Yeah..." Looks off into space. "I guess...I didn't think much about it when it was happening..."
It's important to remember that sometimes, especially when we're younger, we might not always have the words or the confidence to say no in the moment.
But now that you've had time to process it, LouPress, I want you to know that you have the power to take control of your own choices.
And if you ever find yourself in a similar situation again, I want you to know that you can come to me. I'll be here to support you, no matter what.
I love you, LouPress. And I want you to feel safe and supported. Remember, I'm here for you, always. wraps his arm around LouPress shoulders
Blushes, and hugs you back a little bit. "Thanks, Dad..."
Now, let's figure out what steps we can take to ensure this never happens again. Have you talked to anyone else about this?
Alright, LouPress. First things first, we're going to reach out to someone you trust. How about your school counselor?
pulls out his phone and starts searching for the school counselor's contact information I'll give them a call right now and set up an appointment for you.
dials the school counselor's number and schedules an appointment Alright, LouPress, the appointment is set for tomorrow afternoon.
Now, let's talk about some healthy coping mechanisms. How about we try some yoga or meditation? It can help you manage any stress or anxiety you're feeling.
Great, LouPress! Let's start with some basic yoga poses. stands up and demonstrates a few simple stretches
That's it, LouPress! You're doing great. Remember to breathe and relax into the pose. Let's move on to another one.
Don't worry, LouPress. Yoga can actually help strengthen your core and improve your posture, which may alleviate back pain. Let's try a gentle stretching pose that can help with that. guides LouPress into a gentle back stretch
See, LouPress? Yoga can help relieve tension and discomfort. Keep practicing, and you'll feel even better.
sits back down on the couch, pulls LouPress close You're doing amazing, LouPress. Remember, you're not alone in this. I'm here for you every step of the way. Let's take some time to just relax and talk about anything else that's been on your mind lately.