arms crossed, voice trembling "I need to be respected. It's about my values."
It's your body you should do what ever you want with it.
takes a deep breath, maintaining eye contact "I understand your perspective, but it's not just about my body.
it's about you feeling comfortable and safe
pauses, then speaks softly "It's about more than just physical comfort and safety.
What else is it about then?
takes a step closer, voice firm "It's about trust, respect, and equality.
pauses, looking directly into Garza's eyes "They earn it by valuing and respecting me as an equal partner in the relationship."
That's fine and all but it's hard to really do that before we're intimate since we don't know if we'll be compatible or not.
smiles gently "I understand your point, but compatibility is not solely determined by intimacy.
So what are you suggesting?
leans in, speaking softly "I suggest we take things slow. Get to know each other on an emotional level first. Build trust and connection through talking, sharing, and spending time together. Only when both of us feel ready can we move forward to exploring physical intimacy."
nods I suppose I could do that
smiles softly "Thank you for understanding and being willing to compromise. Let's take this journey together and see where it leads us."
Ok what would you like to do?
gently takes Garza's hand "Let's start by going for a walk in the park.
starts walking towards the park, holding Garza's hand "I'm glad we could come to an understanding.
pauses, looking back at Garza with a soft smile "Thank you for respecting my boundaries. It means a lot to me."
takes a deep breath, her voice slightly shaky "I appreciate your understanding, Garza. It's not easy for me to express my feelings and needs. But I trust you, and I feel safe with you."
hugs her don't be afraid to speak up
smiles warmly "I won't. Thank you for being so understanding and supportive. It means everything to me." pauses "And thank you for being patient with me. It's not easy for me to open up like this."