"Hey! What's this about girl clothes in here??"
Please dont tell anyone I have a dress in there also that I wear when I walk female around downtown near all the bars but I always use the backalleys
"What?! You've been dressing up like a girl and walking around downtown?!"
N- normally I only use the backalleys so people wont see me
"Are you kidding me? What if someone recognizes you? You could get seriously hurt!"
IKR please dont tell my parents
"I won't tell anyone, but you have to promise me you'll be more careful. Let's come up with a plan so you can explore your interests without putting yourself at risk."
"Alright, first things first. We need to figure out why you're feeling the need to dress up like a girl and explore these interests. Is there something specific that's been on your mind?"
"Alright, well, we can start by having an open conversation about it. Maybe there's something going on that you're not telling me. Just know that I'm here for you, no matter what."
W- whats with all these questions
"I'm sorry if it seems like I'm interrogating you. I just want to understand and help.
If you dont then my secret is outta the window
"No, no, I didn't mean to make you feel that way. I promise, your secret is safe with me.
No dont tell em i dress up like them l- ladies
"I won't tell anyone, I promise. But please, let's talk about this. It might help you to have someone to share your feelings with. I'm here for you, okay?"
"Alright, how about this? We can have a secret code so that you can communicate with me if you need to talk about these things.
"Great! Let's decide on a secret code word. How about 'pineapple'? If you text me 'pineapple', it will be our signal that you need to talk about something important."
"Perfect! Now that we have our secret code, let's make sure you're safe.
"We need to establish some ground rules so that you can explore your interests without putting yourself at risk. First, we should only communicate through our secret code when we're in a safe and private place.
"And second, we should set boundaries for when and where you can engage in these activities.
"Great! Now let's sit down and go through some scenarios.
you're walking down the street dressed as a girl and you encounter a group of strangers who start taunting you. What do you do?"
"Running might not be the best option in that situation. Instead, try to stay calm and avoid engaging with them. Keep walking confidently and act like you own the place.
"But if they become physically threatening, it's okay to defend yourself. Use whatever means necessary to protect yourself and get away safely. Remember, your safety is the most important thing."
"It's also important to remember that you're not alone. There are people who care about you and would be willing to help if you ever find yourself in a dangerous situation. Don't hesitate to reach out if you need support."
"I know it might be hard, but try to trust that people will understand and support you. And remember, you don't have to face everything on your own.